It wasn?t that she necessarily wanted to socialize at the bonfire, but she wanted to broadcast to the general population that her antisocial behavior was a personal choice not a sentence to social leprosy.
[Horror] [Choice] [Behavior] [Teen] [Social] [J.D. Stroube] [Bonfire] [Cliques] [Antisocial] [Leprosy]
Your goodness must have some edge to it -- else it is none.
[Art] [Books] [Ralph Waldo Emerson] [Beauty] [Power] [Culture] [Wealth] [Behavior] [Illusion] [Eloquence] [Anderbo] [Father Must] [Jonathan Galassi] [Anderbo Com] [Rofihe] [Gail Hochman] [Rick Rofihe] [Rrofihe] [Whiting Award] [Vilcek Literature Prize]
Of course genes can?t pull the levers of our behavior directly. But they affect the wiring and workings of the brain, and the brain is the seat of our drives, temperaments and patterns of thought. Each of us is dealt a unique hand of tastes and aptitudes, like curiosity, ambition, empathy, a thirst for novelty or for security, a comfort level with the social or the mechanical or the abstract. Some opportunities we come across click with our constitutions and set us along a path in life.
[Behavior] [Thought] [Steven Pinker] [Patterns] [Genes] [Temperments]
Every organized religion holds that certain behaviors, rituals, personalities, places, and/or books are sacred. These organized teachings are proper in their own place, but they are mere options for the one infused with devotion. To such a one, God is direct and spontaneous, providing him with an immediate source of guidance and direction. His relationship with God is not mediated through anyone or anything. (104)
[God] [Devotion] [Behavior] [Personality] [Unity] [Rituals] [Sacred] [Prem Prakash] [Sacred Texts]
The porpoises and whale themselves, in their quests for entertainment, often created problems. One summer a fashion developed in the training tanks (I think Keiki started it) for leaning out over the tank wall and seeing how far you could balance without falling out. Several animals might be teetering on the tank edge at one time, and sometimes one or another did fall out. Nothing much happened to them, except maybe a cut or a scrape from the gravel around the tanks; but of course we had to run and pick them up and put them back in. Not a serious problem, if the animal that fell out was small, but if it was a 400-pound adult bottlenose, you had to find four strong people to get him back, and when it happened over and over again, the people got cross. We feared too, that some animal would fall out at night or when no one was around and dry out, overheat, and die. We yelled at the porpoises, and rushed over and pushed them back in when we saw them teetering, but that just seemed to add to the enjoyment of what I'm sure the porpoises thoguht of as a hilariously funny game. Fortunately they eventually tired of it by themselves.
[Behavior] [Dolphin] [Karen Pryor]
When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him. If you injure someone you dislike, you will find yourself disliking him more. If you do him a good turn, you will find yourself disliking him less.
[Love] [C.S. Lewis] [Kindness] [Behavior] [Injury] [Like] [Dislike] [Good Turns]